Thursday 23 October 2014

3 years and still going

So today is my Aliyahversary, 3 years since I stepped onto a plane in Luton and took a step into different world.  I came to Israel seeking I suppose a new challenge and a new life, I felt like I had come to the end of the road in London.  My job was being moved outside of London and there was no way to stay with the company or to find a job in London.  So what is a single guy to do with nothing to keep him in the UK?  Israel they said, ‘you’ve always loved being in Israel when we’ve been on holiday’.  And from that simple sentence an idea grew until 2 years after I had looked into Aliyah, I was waving goodbye to my family, my friends and the life I knew in England to try and find my way in Israel.
  
So stepping off the plane this time not as a tourist or an organised trip this time I was here to stay and heck there was definite culture shock for me, at least though I wasn’t alone in this: in a group flight where everyone is in the same position it shares the experience and also from my flight here I was surprised I wasn’t alone with several others all heading to Haifa and to the Ulpan which somehow made the transition easier.. I came alone and apart from a few friends and friends of family I had no one out here.  When I’ve spoken to Israelis they have all said the same thing to me that I must be crazy to be here, especially coming alone.  I tell them the same thing, I am here because I want to be here and because I want it, my family supports me even miles away and I am not truly alone.

Over my time here, I’ve lived in Haifa, lived in Rishon LeZion and only when I moved 18 months ago to Tel Aviv, did I feel like my life had begun here in Israel  After a bumpy first 18 month in all aspects, I managed to find a job and settle into it for a long period, and as we approach November I’m actually moving on to a new job and a new challenge and that is exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time, after all I’ve grown comfortable where I am and perhaps that’s the thing about life, you have to keep moving, settling only when you feel you have found your way and not for the sake of it.


Over the 3 years I’ve experienced highs, I’ve experienced lows, made friends and lost friends and been called crazy for being here mostly by native Israelis and even a few of my friends back home.  Despite all this I wouldn’t change the last 3 years for anything, I’m here and I can’t wait to see what the next 3 years have in store for me.

Saturday 18 October 2014

Holiday time

Well it’s been a few weeks since I've posted but I felt it’s time to post once more.  Since I last posted I have celebrated the Jewish Festivals of Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur, Sukkot and Simchat Torah.  Now for the time being the Jewish Festivals are over and well short weeks are gone, 5 day working weeks for me again LOL.  Still it’s been fun, I spent Rosh Hashana and the Shabbat that followed on with good friends and it was nice to get away from Tel Aviv for a few days.  I spent the rest of the Festivals here in Tel Aviv and I had fun, at group dinners and a barbecue as well.

During that I had a 10 day holiday from work as my company closes for the period of Sukkot, so I needed to find things to do as I really didn't want to spend my holiday at home with nothing to do.  Fortunately I ended up being very busy and on this Saturday afternoon with work once more beckoning tomorrow I am pleased with my holiday and what I have done with the time.  While my Sunday was filled with stuff I needed to do and so was Monday Morning, after that it’s been fun, I've seen friends and gone to a festival by the beach, stopped off in Haifa to see a friend and her little one.  And generally I've managed to relax, if not sleep as much as I wanted too.  Suppose there is always one downside of a holiday hehe.  

Apart from the Festivals and the things I've done during my holiday, it’s been pretty quiet, I've puppy sat and looked after my roommates puppy for 10 days which even though I had offered I was nervous about, but I shouldn't have worried as the little devil was pretty well behaved :-).  I think my nerves where about a lack of confidence in doing something I hadn't done before and I think that applies with other stuff in my life, people see I have the ability to do things and I just sometimes don't seem to see what they see in me and I allow it to make me doubt myself and worry about things.  Still I feel like things are changing for me at the moment and as I approach 3 years in Israel I hope that only good things are coming my way.  


For now that's all I have to write up, I will be back with a blog for next week about my 3 years in Israel.